Adoption
and Other Matters
I
begin by including here a factual record and testimony from a trial in
which foster parents - the Drummonds - are fighting for the right to adopt
a mixed-race child, Timmy, who has been living with them for two years.
This case throws into relief both of the issues that dominated
our discussion of child welfare policy, namely the prevailing assumptions
in law and policy about family preservation and about race-matching.
Certainly, the assumptions have changed over time, at least in letter
if not in spirit. Elizabeth Bartholet describes legislation during the
last decade meant to speed up permanent placement of children and eliminate
race-matching practices. She also suggests that real-world policy lags
behind the dictates of law. In any case, the controversy described here
took place in the mid-1970s, before the changes she describes.
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The
record before us . . . discloses the following facts:
The
child, Timothy, known throughout as Timmy, was born out of wedlock on
November 17, 1973 to a white mother by a black father. After one month
in the care of his natural mother, he was taken into the care of the defendant
Fulton County Department of Family and Children Services under the authority
of Georgia law because of the "unfitness" of the mother. On
December 15, when he was less than one month old, he was placed in the
home of Robert and Mildred Drummond, the plaintiffs, as foster parents.
At this time, Mrs. Drummond was 49 or 50 years old and her husband was
37 or 38 . . .
For
15 months, until March 10, 1975, the Drummonds cared for Timmy in their
home as a child of their own in a manner subsequently described by the
caseworkers and supervisors . . . as "excellent," "loving,"
"extremely competent" so that at that time he was described
by such personnel as "an extremely bright, highly verbal, outgoing
15-month-old baby boy."
Home
visits by foster home caseworkers were infrequent, but some contact was
maintained by telephone, especially when the Drummonds desired to leave
town for trips.
Some
time late in 1974, it came to the attention of the then current
caseworker Barbara Osgood, that the Drummonds wished to adopt Timmy. She
had not then seen Timmy or the Drummonds, but the problem of the Drummonds'
request was submitted to a "staffing." This was a conference
which included Osgood's supervisor, Mrs. Grape, Mrs. Dallinger, the adoption
supervisor, and one or two other personnel. It is apparent that none of
these staff people had seen either Timmy or the Drummonds. Miss Osgood's
description of what occurred at the staffing follows:
A.
Well, it centered around the fact that we knew the Drummonds would like
to adopt Timmy, and Miss Grape talked a great deal of time about she
was black and . . . experience that she had known or heard of of black
or mixed race children growing up in white homes. And she had, you know,
some real feelings that this was not a good plan to this type of child,
that they face too many problems as a result of that kind of placement.
So
after, you know, some discussion was made about that, the decision was
made for Miss Grape and Miss Dallinger to talk with the Drummonds and
to try to express, you know, some of our concerns about what we felt
was in Timmy's best interest; and, also, the question was brought up
that if the Drummonds were not amenable to our plan, would we move Timmy
to a black foster home feeling that, you know, it would be better if
we were going to have him adopted by a black couple, to have him in
a black foster home if they was going to be any length of time before
he was free.
Q. Was there a decision made at that staffing that you recall? Was there
a vote taken in any way?
A. No. There was no vote taken. I think I commented at the time that
it seemed to me that the decision had already been made.
Q. What do you feel the decision was?
A. I think the decision was that it would be in Timmy's best interest
to be adopted by a black couple.
On
March 10, [1975], Mrs. Grape and Mrs. Dallinger had the Drummonds
bring Timmy to the office to carry out the decision made at the "staffing."
Mr. Drummond testified that at the conference: "Mrs. Grape said she
thought Timmy should be adopted by a black family."
Q.
What did you say when you were told that Miss Grape . . . that she thought
it would be best for Timmy to be placed with a black couple?
A.
Well, my wife and myself thought that we should be able to adopt Timmy,
that we would like to have him.
Q. All right, Was there anything said about it being to his advantage
for him to grow up in the black community?
A. I think Miss Grape said something to that effect.
Q. Did you and your wife ever accept the fact that you couldn't adopt
Timmy, that he had to be adopted by black parents?
A. No, we did not.
Q. Did you ever do anything about it after . . . this March meeting
. . . toward adopting Timmy?
A. Well, we told them we would like to adopt him and told the case worker.
Mrs.
Drummond's testimony as to this interview was as follows:
Q.
Okay. What did they tell you about whether they were going to permit
you to adopt him?
A. They told us that - Miss Grape did the talking, and Miss Grape said
that since Timmy was a mixed child, that she felt, and she felt that
the Department felt, that Timmy would be better off raised in a black
family.
Q.
Did you accept that at that time?
A. I tried to accept it. But I could not.
Q. What further steps did you take to try to adopt Timmy?
A. I called and talked with the case workers and repeatedly told them
that we wanted to adopt Timmy. And then when Mrs. Osgood came out to
our home, we told her how much we wanted to adopt Timmy and would they
please give us another meeting, that we would try and let them know
how much we wanted Timmy.
Q. Okay. Back up to the March meeting. Were you told at that meeting
that you were too old to adopt him?
A. No.
Q. When did you move to Douglas County?
A. Within eight months.
Q. Did anyone ever tell you it would hurt your chances to adopt Timmy
if you moved to Douglas County?
A. No, Ma'am.
Q. Would you have moved to Douglas County had you known?
A. No, indeed, had we known.
Q. Are you willing to return to the City of Atlanta?
A. We're packing to move back to Fulton County to the City of Atlanta
now.
Q. In the March meeting, did Miss Dallinger or Miss Grape discuss the
community in which they thought Timmy should live?
A. . . . Miss Grape stated that she felt that he would be better off
raised in a black community.
A
memorandum for the files was prepared by Mrs. Grape as follows:
On
3/10/75 Mr. and Mrs. Drummond, foster parents, were in the office with
Timothy Hill, foster child. Nancy Hartzog kept Timothy in the playroom
while Helen Grape and Kay Dallinger had a personal conference with Mr.
and Mrs. Drummond. The Drummonds now admit that Timothy is a mixed race
child of Black/White heritage. They did some superficial denial of the
idea that this fact would cause Timothy any problems in remaining in
their home. They did not, however, push for them to be allowed to adopt
Timothy. As a matter of fact, they stated they could let Timothy go
to a young, energetic, religious, adoptive couple. They expressed primary
concern that he not be moved from their home to another foster home
as they believed he would not receive the quality of care they are giving
him in another foster home. They feel that separation from Timothy will
tear their hearts out but that they can do it because it would be best
for Timothy in the long run. They seem quite accepting when Ms. Grape
and Ms. Dallinger verbalized for them that Timothy would, in our opinion,
make a better adjustment and have a better chance in life with a Black
couple in the Black community.
We
further explained our efforts to work with the natural mother, the expected
time involved before we could get either a voluntary release or be prepared
for court action to terminate parental rights. We said the mother was
not a bad person but a sad person - immature [and] not ready for responsibility.
We stated we needed to make further efforts to rehabilitate her before
a final decision is reached. We estimated a minimum of six months to
one year before we will even know if adoption is the plan for Timothy.
Ms. Dallinger explained that even [some] . . . months more would be
involved in working with him to fully know Timothy, select the right
adoptive home, and slowly move Timothy. Ms. Drummond cried in anticipation
of eventual separation. Both Mr. and Mrs. Drummond expressed appreciation
in knowing the truth. The truth being 1) we are working towards adoption
for Timothy outside their home; 2) it may take one to two years to accomplish
this goal; 3) the rehabilitation of the mother's home is a slim possibility
but still a possibility; 4) because of the excellent care the Drummonds
have provided for Timothy, we (the agency) are more than willing for
the Drummonds to keep Timothy on a foster care basis until a permanent
plan can be made if the Drummonds are willing to keep him under these
circumstances. The Drummonds committed themselves to giving the child
all the love and care they can give him as foster parents and to eventually
helping Timothy to separate from them and move to a permanent adoptive
home. They reemphasized that they could 'love and let go.'
ADDITIONAL
NOTE: We agreed to keep them informed of any progress that we make in
working with the natural mother or in court action. Ms. Grape suggested
11/75 as a good review date since Timothy will be two years old that
month. Timothy was observed on this date to be an extremely bright,
highly verbal, outgoing, 15 month old baby boy. His complexion is light
olive. He has a definite Afro and is a physically appealing mixed race
child.
A
letter was then sent to the Drummonds which is copied here verbatim:
March
17, 1975
Mr. and Mrs. Robert Drummond
2390 Fabin Street, N.W.
Atlanta, Georgia 30318
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Drummond:
This
is to confirm with you our understandings and agreements during our
office conference on 3/10/75. As you will recall, on this date we explained
our efforts to work with Timothy's natural mother and the time involved
before we could get either a voluntary release or be prepared for court
action to terminate parental rights. However, we also explained that
we would continue further efforts to rehabilitate Timothy's natural
mother before a final decision was made. The estimated time span would
be approximately six months to one year before this decision would be
reached. If adoption becomes legally possible, months will be involved
in working with you, fully knowing Timothy, selecting the right adoptive
home, and slowly moving Timothy into a permanent adoptive home.
Both
of you expressed appreciation in knowing specific steps that the department
would take in working with Timothy. These steps are:
1) we are working towards adoption for Timothy outside your home;
2) it may take one to two years to accomplish this goal;
3) the rehabilitation of the mother's home is a slim possibility but
still a possibility;
4) because of the excellent care you have provided for Timothy, the
agency is happy for you to keep Timothy on a foster care basis until
a permanent plan can be made, if you are willing to keep him under these
circumstances, and you stated in our meeting that you wanted to keep
him until a permanent plan could be made. You committed yourselves to
giving Timothy all the love and care that you could give him as his
foster parents and also eventually to helping Timothy to separate from
you and move into a permanent adoptive home. Thank you for your love
and concern for this precious child.
Sincerely,
Ms.
Kay Dallinger
Casework Supervisor III -
Adoptions
Mrs.
Helen Grape
Casework Supervisor III -
Foster Care
Mrs.
Drummond testified that they continued to make known to their caseworker
thereafter their desire to adopt Timmy. This is confirmed by Mrs. Osgood,
their caseworker, who testified:
A. After I read this [the memorandum of March 11 . . .] I thought, well,
that perhaps things had been resolved with the Drummonds and that it
appeared that they were in agreement with us. So I went out to do the
foster home re-evaluation interview thinking this was decided and that
they would have, you know, have been in agreement with this plan for
Timmy. I was really surprised when I got out there, because to hear
their interpretation of it, that they were not in agreement with it
at all. And, you know, I don't know whether it is because they had changed
their minds in the interim period or whether we had heard what we wanted
to hear in the interview, but at any rate, they certainly were not in
agreement with what this states when I went out there.
Q. What did they want to do when you went out there? What was their
opinion? What was their approach to you?
A. Well, they had stated that they had been talking with their foster
care worker who was Mollie Bartlett at that time and were requesting
an interview with the adoption staff to, again, state their desire to
adopt Timmy. Mrs. Drummond said she had not heard anything about it,
and so I told her after I wrote up my evaluation that I would write
a memo to Mrs. Dallinger bringing it to her attention that the Drummonds
were still interested. I did that soon after the evaluation.
Q. Go ahead.
A. I received a reply stating that the Drummonds would be given an interview
after Timmy's termination hearing.
On
August 15 [1975], Miss Mollie Bartlett wrote a memorandum to Mrs.
Dallinger as follows:
On
3-10-75, you met with Mrs. Grape and the Robert Drummonds, Timmy's foster
family. At the conclusion of the conference the Drummonds were planning
to care for Timmy until he was freed for adoption and to help him adjust
to the adoptive home when adoption occurred. For a short time they seemed
to fully accept the premise that Timmy would be better placed in a black
home.
Today,
after nearly six months, the Drummonds are requesting an opportunity
to be reconsidered as adoptive parents for Timmy. They have no reservations
about their acceptance of a mixed race child. Mrs. Drummond's health
had once seemed questionable, but her doctor found gallstones and as
soon as she has surgery, she foresees no further health problems.
Mrs.
Dallinger replied:
In
response to your memo regarding the Drummonds' renewed interest in adopting
Timmy, I have learned that the termination petition has been filed and
the hearing set for 9/25/75 at 9:30. Under the circumstances the Drummonds
should bring Timmy to the office for the hearing, and you should bring
him to the juvenile court.
I
personally feel that the Drummonds are back into their earlier denial
pattern. The approach I recommend for you is to stall with no encouragement.
Example . . . 'No one can be considered for the adoption of Timmy until
he is freed. Adoption staff would have to carefully examine any possible
home for Timmy, particularly a white home such as yours. I don't want
to encourage you. The best thing for you to do is think about this some
more and discuss this with the adoption staff. If and when he is freed,
I have advised adoption that you have changed your mind.'
Thank
you for alerting us to the situation.
Thereafter,
about August 25, Mrs. Osgood made the re-evaluation as a result
of which she described the foster parents in the following terms.
The
foster parents provide excellent care. They are unusually attentive
to the child's medical and emotional needs and feel as if they are the
'natural' family.
Under
the heading on the evaluation form "Particular Strength of Home,"
Mrs. Osgood wrote:
The
Drummonds have accepted a mixed race child and have handled the attendant
problems well. They are a very loving, warm family.
Finally,
she made the following recommendation for the Drummonds as foster parents:
I recommend this home for a child of either sex, age 0 to 3.
This
re-evaluation report was accompanied by a memorandum again addressed to
Mrs. Dallinger:
I
recently did the foster home re-evaluation on the above named couple
As you will recall on March 11, 1975, you and Helen Grape interviewed
Mr. and Mrs. Drummond regarding their expressed interest in adopting
Timmy. For your convenience a copy of the notes from that conference
are attached.
I
spoke with Mr. and Mrs. Drummond for over two hours and during this
time I also had a chance to observe Timmy. As a result of my conversation
I have the distinct impression that the Drummonds did not adequately
express their feelings on the March 11th interview. In the foster home
re-evaluation they stated unequivocally and emphatically their desire
to adopt Timmy. They rejected the notion that he would make a better
adjustment in a Black home by pointing out that Timmy has always been
around White people and this has been incorporated into his self-concept.
They do not understand why we would remove a child from a home where
he has been since birth and replace him because we believe he will have
a better 'chance' in the Black community.
The
Drummonds expressed their intention to give Timmy every opportunity
possible to develop as a human being, regardless of race. I talked with
them about community acceptance and the possibility of Timmy dating
a Black girl when he gets older. The Drummonds acknowledged that Timmy
would be 'different,' but felt he would have problems in the Black community
also. They noted that Timmy would make his own decisions as to who he
would date and they would have no objections to his choice. They pointed
out that they make no secret of Timmy's Black heritage and felt that
they would deal forthrightly with Timmy on this subject.
Timmy
is an exceptionally well-adjusted child. There is no question that he
is the center of this household. He talks in sentences, counts to ten,
and shows off for visitors by strumming the guitar and singing gospel
songs. The fact that he is bright, active, and friendly is a tribute
to the excellent care he is receiving from these parents.
Because
of the intensity of their feelings for Timmy, the Drummonds are again
requesting a conference with you to discuss adoption. I believe they
will explore every possibility in their efforts to keep Timmy first
within the agency, but using outside resources if it becomes necessary.
I
hope this information will be helpful. I understand Timmy's termination
hearing is set for September 25th, 1975.
To
this memo Mrs. Dallinger replied:
Thank
you for your memo of 9/3/75 concerning this case. I have discussed the
case with Ms. Staten. We feel it is inappropriate to decide the matter
prior to termination proceedings on 9/25/75. I will throw the issue
open to the adoption committee at the end of September, if he is freed.
Regardless of any decisions made, you may assure the Drummonds that
they will be given further interviews with me or other adoption staff
about this matter. Early October would appear to be the best time for
this and I will see that they are contacted. Please loan me any case
files you have on the Drummonds.
On
September 25, the Juvenile Court of Fulton County entered what
is known as a "Termination Order," ending the parental rights
of Timmy's natural mother and placing his custody in the Georgia Department
of Human Resources, Division of Family and Children Services, granting
the Division the right to place Timmy for adoption.
Thereupon,
on October 3 a "Social Study on Child to be Placed" was
made for Timmy. It was made by an adoptions caseworker named Phyllis Jonas.
This study described the child as having "medium olive" skin,
"dark brown," "thick rather coarse and wavy hair"
and as being a "very attractive child," normal physically and
mentally, stating "child is well adjusted and happy. He is a bright
verbal child."
This
study was followed by an "evaluation interview" by caseworker
Brenda B. Payne. Her report, which contained a recommendation that the
Drummonds be permitted to adopt Timmy, is quoted in full:
Mr.
and Mrs. Drummond arrived early for their interview. They brought Timmy
with them. He continues to be an extremely alert, happy and attractive
child. While I interviewed the Drummonds, Mrs. Holloway, Timmy's worker
care[d] for him in the playroom. The Drummonds were obviously very nervous
and anxious at first.
Initially
I reviewed the past events with them, their meeting with Mrs. Dallinger
and Mrs. Grape, the decision made at that time, and their change of
heart later. As Ms. Hauben's contacts indicated, the Drummonds have
had a chance to think about their interview last spring, and have come
to the conclusion that adoption by another couple may not be what is
best for Timmy.
The
Drummond's expressed their feelings that although everyone wants to
do 'what's best for Timmy' on re-considering they seriously wonder if
placing him in another home, and putting him through the trauma of a
move would be in his best interest. The agency seems to be saying that
putting him n a black home would be the prime consideration thinking
'what's best for Timmy.' The Drummond's stated they felt they knew Timmy
better than any agency personnel, they've cared for him, watched him
grow and develop, and perhaps they know best what would be best for
him.
I
told the Drummonds that part of my functions was to sit down with them
and think together what would be best for Timmy - that frankly none
of us were really sure of what would be best at this point. I spent
a good deal of time in finding out about the Drummond's orientation
toward blacks and the black community. Although the Drummond's admitted
to having some degree of racial prejudice in long years past, due to
their age and society's focus . . . they felt that their . . . [views]
had change[d] . . . before getting Timmy. Mr. Drummond states he's had
lots of relationships with blacks thru his job, and has worked under
a black supervisor.
He
spoke in positive terms of these relationships. Mrs. Drummond said she
had worked as a nurse several years ago and had worked closely with
many black people and she also said that with their contacts with people
in the gospel singing world, many more blacks were involved as musicians
and performers than in years past. They had worked closely with many
black performers and been able to form very good relationships with
them.
Although
there are no blacks living in their area in Douglasville, Mr. Drummond
remarked that they live in a subdivision with many young families. He
stated they had never had any problems with Timmy's being accepted by
the neighbors, and seemed to feel that the young adults of today are
much more accepting of people of other races. The Drummond's indicated
that Timmy had been enrolled in an integrated kindergarten setting,
but Mrs. Drummond was advised to take him out for awhile by Timmy's
doctor due to his bouts with tonsillitis. The public school nearby is
integrated; however, the majority of the children who attend are white.
We
talked some about whether or not Timmy understand[s] he's different
yet. They said that he's really too young to yet be aware that he is,
but as he gets older they certainly will try to be as open with him
as they can about his heritage and race. (According to Ms. Holloway
with her contacts with Timmy it is evident he's not yet aware of any
colors yet and cannot identify by name colors like red or green, or
cannot say what color he is.)
Although
Timmy has not yet noticed that he is different Mr. and Mrs. Drummond
were certainly able to acknowledge that other people have noticed. They
are aware that Timmy will be noticed and are aware they will have to
help him through many hard times in his life. Mrs. Drummond said she
knows they will have to handle people's reactions to Timmy; they certainly
don't deny they've already had to handle stares and comments from people
of both races. . . . Mr. Drummond says people stop and ask what nationality
he is and he tells them. He says he wants Timmy to be proud of the fact
that he is part black. Mr. and Mrs. Drummond both said that although
they've [sic] certain Timmy may face ridicule or rejection at times,
they feel if he has their love and support, as well as his gift of openness,
friendliness, and very high intelligence, that this would enable him
to have a happy and secure life. Mrs. Drummond expressed her belief
that [God?] was responsible for making Timmy such an exceptionally gifted
and friendly child, so that in spite of problems about his race he will
be liked and accepted by those who come to know him personally.
The
Drummonds are very much aware of Timmy's exceptional mental abilities.
They definitely plan to send him to college if he wants to go, and stated
they hoped maybe he would want to be a professional person such as a
doctor or lawyer. I feel they recognize that he may need much more stimulation
as he gets older, and seemed willing to consider outside resources,
special schools or tutors in order to help him reach his potential.
When
we talked in detail about some of the specific problems Timmy might
face because of his race, Mrs. Drummond reacted in a strongly protective
manner. She said if she ever heard of a teacher or anyone else giving
him trouble because of his race, she'd 'go down there and give them
a piece of my mind.' I tried to help them see that while it would be
good to support Timmy during these times that if they're over protective
they wouldn't give Timmy the chance to become independent and able to
stand up for himself. I noted, that one of the advantages Timmy would
have in a black home would be that he would be given survival skills,
would be given guidance from people of the black race as to how to protect
himself and win difficult situations. It would be much easier for a
black parent to give him these skills than would a white parent, as
they would be teaching him from their own experience. Although the Drummond's
understood what I was saying, they felt that the most important thing
Timmy needed to be secure and happy about himself, was to have parents
who truly loved him.
We
talked about how the rest of the Drummond's extended family felt about
Timmy. The Drummond's said that all of their family, their brothers
and sisters, and Mrs. Drummond['s] mother dearly loved Timmy. Mr. Drummond's
parents are deceased. Mrs. Drummond said her mother called her before
our meeting today to say she'd be 'waiting by the phone to hear the
results.' Evidently the whole family is behind the Drummonds 100% and
Timmy is fully accepted by them all.
I
spent a lot of time in talking with the Drummonds about things they
might have to face with Timmy - the social pressures, the feelings of
insecurity he might have, and especially problems which might arise
during adolescence in regard to dating and peer group relationships.
I gave them true case examples from articles I'd read about blacks raised
in white homes, although I did have to admit there were both very negative
and positive experiences these children had. The pros and cons were
about equal in those situations. I showed the Drummonds pictures of
our foster child Jackie who is a mixed race five years old, showing
how much he had darkened over the years.
As
I expected, none of these things seemed to change the Drummonds mind.
They felt they love Timmy now and will always love him regardless of
what color he becomes or what culture he wants to identify with. They
indicated that the agency thought they were good enough to raise Timmy
up till now, so on what basis other than race were we unwilling to consider
them as adoptive parents. Mr. and Mrs. Drummond were not hostile, toward
this agency, but they again stated they felt that the fact that they
loved Timmy and he loved them was the most important thing for the agency
to consider.
I
tried to discover how far the Drummonds would be willing to prepare
themselves should they be allowed to raise Timmy. They would be willing
to do anything we suggested to go through a series of intensive interviews
with black caseworker to help them understand the black culture and
heritage, to read books and other literature in order to educate themselves
in the black experience, and to talk with their own black friends at
work about their feelings and experiences about being black. They were
extremely cooperative and seemed willing to accept any help we could
give them. They were very interested in hearing about the Buechle couple
and would be very interested in being put in touch with them.
At
the present time our relationship with the Drummonds remains good. They
are not hostile or angry and are very willing to accept supervision
or guidance from us. However, they did make it clear they loved Timmy
enough to fight for him and would take the matter to court if necessary.
I do fear if this result[s], and the Drummond's win in court we would
have damaged any chance we would have to give them guidance and help
in raising Timmy, as our relationship with them would most probably
be destroyed. They are pushing for a decision to be made soon. Mrs.
Drummond says this situation has caused them lots of worry and heartache;
she said Timmy is at a crucial period in his life, and he needs to be
given some security, instead of living under this threat of removal.
The Drummonds understand the decision is not mine to make, that it will
be a committee decision, they do ask that this matter be resolved soon
for everyone's sake. I told the Drummonds they would be notified of
our decision as soon as possible.
Observation and Recommendations:
In
thinking about the agency's position in this case I still can see it
remains a two-sided thing. In my brief contact with this family I have
both positive and negative feelings as have other workers.
I
was concerned about how intensely the Drummonds relate to Timmy; it
turns me off a little to see them getting him to 'perform or do tricks.'
The reasons for this may be positive or negative - he may be a novelty
or toy for them, or they may just be over-emphasizing his achievements
and getting him to perform to prove to caseworkers they are taking good
care of him and stimulating him. I don't know what may be the cause,
but I definitely hope this pattern would not continue as he grows up.
I also understand from other workers that Mrs. Drummond has an almost
hypochondriac focus on Timmy's health. There definitely is a fear he
could be pampered, spoiled and over protected by them.
Also,
on considering the Drummonds age and background, it does seem their
attempts to help Timmy understand his black heritage will be admittedly
artificial though sincere and honest in motivation. Whether or not the
Drummonds can become comfortable with the subject of race over the years,
so that their attempts will be natural and spontaneous is anybody's
guess.
I
also am very much aware that in intellect and intelligence Timmy is
far above the Drummonds. Although they can offer adequate stimulation
now, who is to say how much they'll be able to stimulate Timmy as he
grows up. Certainly to 'waste' his intelligence would be a shame, although
if he develops a trauma because of being moved he could become a very
intelligent culture but perhaps insecure and unhappy individual.
On
the positive side I can definitely see that Timmy is loved by the Drummonds,
and he loves them. They do not seem to have tried to 'hide Timmy' and
are constantly taking him to public places, gospel shows etc. They seem
to have so far instilled in him a good feeling about himself and he
seems happy and well adjusted. So far they seems [sic] able to deal
with his racial identity in an acceptable manner. The Drummonds do have
more involvement with blacks than we had first thought, and do seem
to be in the early stages of developing healthy attitudes about black
people.
The
fact that their other family members are supporting them about Timmy
is also a positive.
Because
the Drummonds are not from the kind of upper-middle class achievement
oriented home most caseworkers come from it does make it hard to visualize
seeing Timmy grow up 'successfully' in this kind of culture. However
who really can say what kind of environment is best to grow up in?
In
conclusion, I personally feel for several reasons we should let Timmy
remain with the Drummond's, in spite of our concerns. Either way there
are risks and no guarantees. The fact that there presently are no appropriate
homes for Timmy, and the fact that he might also experience some rejection
by some members of the black community due to his 'whiteness' is also
a consideration. Also my concern that we most probably would be facing
court action by the Drummonds with some doubt as to the 'strength of
our case' is also a factor. For Timmy's well being I do not feel that
a long court involvement would be beneficial regardless of what the
courts decision is. The Drummonds are evidently living under a great
deal of stress and eventually this may be transferred on to Timmy.
I
do feel that a group consensus, is probably the best way to decide what
to do. This certainly is too risky a situation for any one person to
make the decision alone. I hope the group will be able to meet and decide
some thing soon.
Acting
on Mrs. Payne's recommendation, a group was called on November 11
to conduct a "staffing" . . . Of the 19 persons present at the
staffing the record does not indicate that more than four had seen Timmy
or the Drummond family. Of the six or seven caseworkers and supervisors
who had seen the child and his foster parents, it appears that Mrs. Grape,
Mollie Bartlett, and Barbara Osgood were not present at the staffing.
The record does not clearly establish the precise time, place or form
of the final action which the . . . Department or its officials took that
denied the Drummonds' request to adopt the child. Neither does it show
precisely what authority any one of the participating staff persons had
to make the final decision. It appears that the officials treated the
vote taken at the staffing as representing final denial of the Drummonds'
request. In any event, Mrs. Drummond testified that a few days after the
staffing, she and her husband were called to the office and met with Mrs.
Dallinger and Mrs. Holloway and that the former said to them: "I
am sure that you are both very anxious to know what has happened and we
called you in to tell you that the decision still stands, that we feel
that Timmy will be better off adopted by a black couple or a black family."
At
the trial, during her testimony, Mrs. Dallinger gave a different interpretation
of the[earlier] March conversation, saying that the reference to black
family was to indicate that it would be more likely that a black adoptive
home would be available. Her testimony follows:
Q.
Actually, you had made a tentative decision at the March meeting to
place him in a black home if you gained the parental rights?
A.I thought that would be the likelihood of the home that would be available,
but even all the way through after the final decision was made when
I asked the State for homes, I did not ask for black homes. I asked
for whatever homes were available for this child.
Q. Reading again from your testimony in your deposition on page twenty-six,
'So there had been a request to adopt that you know' - talking about
the Drummond - 'is that right? And the request had been made in spite
of your knowledge of his mixed race, of his being a mixed race child?
A. That's right.
Q. Did you verbalize an opinion that he would be better, make a better
adjustment and have a better life with a black couple in the black community?
A. Yes, I did.
Q. Did Miss Grape verbalize that?
A. Yes.
Q. Actually, you had made a tentative decision at that time to place
him in a black home if you gained - had his parental rights terminated;
is that correct?
A. That's right.'
Q. Did you make that -
A. That was a tentative decision that he would go into what we thought
would be probably a black home. You have to understand the supplies
of homes that are available.
Mrs.
Dallinger testified further about the November meeting:
Q . . . . In the November meeting did you tell Mr. and Mrs. Drummond
that the decision had been made to place Timmy in a black home?
A. Yes, because then we had made the final decision that they could
not adopt, and we had then selected the home, so, yes, we knew the home
then.
Q.
Did you have the -
A. That was definite then.
Q. At the time you told them?
A. Uh huh. In November. I told the characteristics about the home that
had been selected, you know, that I thought maybe would help them realize
Timmy was going to go to a good home.
Q. At the time I'm talking about, maybe, the staff meeting, the decision
was made there to place Timmy in a black home.
A. In the staffing meeting?
Q. In the staffing meeting.
A. No. We didn't decide where to place Timmy. We decided that we would
place him for adoption outside of their home. We were trying to make
a decision in that meeting whether it would be in Timmy's best interest
to leave him with the Drummonds and allow them to adopt him or place
him up for adoption outside, to seek adoptive homes outside of, you
know, of them.
Q. Did you not decide at that meeting that Timmy would be placed in
a black adoptive home?
A. No. I don't believe so. I think we talked about, again, in terms
of the supply, we thought that was probably what would be available.
. . .
Q. You are denying that the decision was made at that meeting to place
Timmy in a black home?
A. We talked in that meeting about mixed children and where they seem
to adjust better and what kind of black couple - what kind of a white
couple could accept these children, you know, what were the characteristics
of those couples. I think our general feeling, you know, at the end
of that meeting that it would likely be a black home, you know, available
for him that would fit those requirements, but like I said, you have
to understand the procedure. After we rule out one home, then we look
at the pool of homes available, and we look at all homes available.
But in the minds of all of us at the meeting -
Q. Did you have a black home available? . . .
A. Well, we knew about the pool of homes in Fulton County. That is the
homes that we recruit, study, develop, this kind of thing. And we had
already looked there, and we knew there was no suitable white or black
homes. There were both black and white homes approved and waiting for
children, but none that we thought met Timmy's other needs.
So
we didn't feel like we had a home in Fulton, and we knew we would have
to ask the State. And we've had a number of mixed race children lately,
and we haven't gotten but one white home that I know of in a long time
for a mixed race child. That was a home studied by Child Service and
Family Counseling, and then we've had one mixed marriage home, you know,
available in the county that we could have looked at for Timmy, which
we did, I believe. So we already, you know, had some awareness of what
the supply of homes available for him were. The supply didn't include
any white homes that we knew of."
Finally,
Brenda Payne, whose re-evaluation recommendation was that the Drummonds
be permitted to adopt Timmy, and who was present at the staffing, testified
at the trial:
Q.
Did you interview the Drummonds in connection with their desire to adopt
a child by the name of Timmy?
A. Yes.
Q. Did you also participate in a staff meeting in November in which
the question was considered?
A. Yes.
Q. I hand you Plaintiff's Exhibit 15 and direct your attention to the
paragraph numbered seven.
A. Yes.
Q. In the second paragraph there, it says: 'After discussion, the staff
was convinced if we left him in his present environment, we would be
giving him problems he would not have if placed in a black home.'
A. I've lost where that is. Where would that be?
Q. Excuse me. The second paragraph under number seven.
A. At present Timmy is so young? Oh, I see. Okay.
Q. And then it goes on to say: 'A vote was taken, and it was a group
decision that it would not be in Timmy's best interest to leave him
in the Drummond home and that we would begin immediately searching'
- is that what that is - 'and' -
A. Immediately to - I don't know. 'Seek' maybe? 'Seek,' maybe, an appropriate
-
Q. Search immediately for an appropriate black adoptive home; is that
correct?
A. Yes.
Q. Okay. Was that the decision at that meeting?
A. Yes. That the Drummonds would not adopt Timmy.
Q. What about that you would seek a black adoptive home?
A. I believe that was the decision."
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Would
you have made the same decision? Why or why not?
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This
testimony is take from Drummond v. Fulton County Department of Family
and Children's Services, 547 F. 2d 835 (Fifth Circuit Court of Appeals,
1977). The Drummonds had sued to overturn the decision of the Department
of Family and Children's Services. Lower courts denied them any rights
against the Department. In a rehearing en banc, the Fifth Circuit
Court agreed that the Drummonds had been denied neither their due process
rights nor their equal protection rights under the Fourteenth Amendment
(563 F.2d 1200 [1977]).
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Three
things stand out in this testimony. First, note the slowness of
the process - a slowness predicated on the operating assumption by the
Fulton County Department that ample time must be given to "rehabilitate"
the birth mother. We don't know what it was that prompted it to take custody
of Timmy at one month of age, but the Department did not initiate proceedings
to terminate the mother's parental rights until two years later. In the
meantime, Timmy grows up in the Drummond's home.
Second,
hovering over the whole affair lies the assumption within the Department
that race-matching is the most desirable outcome - but the specific argument
for matching in this particular case is never made out in any detail.
Indeed, the last case worker to examine the Drummonds recommends that
the balance of all considerations - including considerations of race -
favors letting them adopt. That recommendation isn't followed, and we
don't know why expect for a kind of general presumption all along that
Timmy would be given to a black couple.
Third,
and related to both the foregoing: what beliefs were at work in the Department
about the development of children? Timmy had formed strong bonds with
loving adults - the only "parents" he had known. Would abrupt
removal by the Department - for reasons he would never fathom - constitute
a relatively minor upset in his life, soon fogotten, or a major trauma
that would color the rest of his development? The Department must have
been operating on some premise here, since it was putatively acting
in Timmy's best interest. What was the belief?
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That the trauma of separation would not be great?
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That the trauma of separation would be great but would be offset by
the greater trauma Timmy would suffer growing up in a white family?
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In
all of this Timmy, of course, had no say. In the litigation, a separate
attorney was appointed to speak for Timmy's interests, but none of the
attorney's arguments were given any weight, since as a matter of law,
said the higher courts, Timmy's interests were already" protected"
by the Department of Family and Children's Services. Likewise, the Drummonds,
because they were foster parents, had no cognizable rights in this matter,
either. Had they been Timmy's biological parents, they would have
possessed a whole battery of Constitutional rights to assert before any
court, but as his "psychological parents," they had none.
***********
The
issues surrounding the kind of adoption in Timmy's case throw up many
hard questions about (i) the rights of biological parents and how we
ground them, (ii) the interests of non-biological caretakers and
of larger communities in the raising of a child, and (iii) the
rights of children themselves (and to what extent we do, or do not,
give any force to those rights through law and policy).
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TO
SHIFT DIRECTIONS: When we take the interests of children seriously, what
does this imply about prenatal care and responsibility? It may
be bad policy for all sorts of reasons to adopt punitive measures against
women who abuse drugs or alcohol during pregnancy, but is one of the reasons
we resist punitive measures the fact that fetuses have no rights?
Suppose
we accept the proposition that fetuses have no rights (at least in their
first trimester). What does this mean? Suppose we grant that it means
a woman violates no one's rights if she elects to terminate a pregnancy.
What else does it mean?
Consider
the following case. A woman in the early stages of pregnancy elects
to take part in a scientific experiment involving fetal surgery. The fetus
will be affected in a way that, should it be born, it would suffer painful
disabilities all its life. But it won't be born: the mother plans to terminate
the pregnancy as soon as the experiment runs its (short) course.
Now
consider a second case. A woman in the early stages of pregnancy elects
to take part in a scientific experiment involving fetal surgery. The fetus
will be affected in a way that, because it will be born, it will
suffer painful disabilities all its life. It will be born because the
women plans to carry her pregnancy to term, and she also plans to abandon
her baby at birth so that the ordeal of caring for such a child will fall
on someone else.
If
we accept the premise that fetuses have no rights, are we required to
make the same moral judgment about the women in both these cases?
If we contend that the second woman acts in a morally despicable manner,
does that contention rest on any claim about fetal rights as such? Or
does it rest only on the rights of the fetus-as-a-single-stage-in-the-life-of-a-person?
In other words, does it rest only on the proposition that persons
have the right not to have their future interests wrongfully injured by
deliberate and malicious actions now?
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